You can be beautiful, like Brigitte Bardot, smart as Sharon Stone and modest like Cinderella. But, in spite of all the tremendous qualities, it may give rise to the feeling that you are not the darling with whom you want to grow old. But do not rush to enroll in the ranks of the Amazons or husbands. Let's see why this happens.
Of course, your lovely habits will not immediately start to get a man. This will happen in about a year of living together, when hormones will cease to influence your emotional sphere too violently. During the candy and bouquet period any disadvantages of the partner cause only emotion.
But when the storming hormones calm down, the veil from the eyes subsides. It starts to annoy everything that used to seem so funny. Therefore, if your faithful made a remark to you, do not rush to throw a tantrum. First find out what irritated him. Some female habits can irritate any man.
Desire to manipulate a man
Threats, tears, tantrums - men are annoyed by all the methods of female manipulation. Any woman can learn to drive a man. But do we need it? Where power begins, love ends. Any manipulation is an attempt to take power into your own hands. Of course, there is a type of men, quite easily submitting to a woman. But these men often have problems with potency and depression. Any desire to control is associated with uncertainty in the partner and his feelings.
When you have the desire to manipulate again, sit down with your husband at the negotiating table. Frankly talk to him about your desires and feelings. Feel free to ask directly for help if you need it. A calm, confidential conversation will have a much better effect than a dictatorship.
Chronic jealousy
For a man, there is nothing more irritable than unreasonable female jealousy. When it arises from scratch, it is simply impossible to get rid of it. A woman can see something, followed by a hysterical performance. For many couples, jealousy is a fiery cocktail that tones the relationship. But this is only possible when jealousy just tickles your nerves. Well, when the next attack ends with passionate reconciliation. But very often women literally stifle their partners with jealousy. This behavior is incredibly annoying men, bringing their patience to the limit.
Sexual blackmail
Sometimes for refusing to take out the trash a man can lose sex. Women often use sex as a means of blackmail or revenge. Realizing the full power of this tool, women begin to punish their partners, even for the smallest offenses, closing access to their body.
Sexual blackmail can ruin your relationship forever. In response to such manipulation, the man will not show the expected obedience, but only anger and discontent. Until such a tactic has killed your relationship, abandon it forever.
Violation of personal space
Women often try to call a man to a frank conversation, even if he resists it with all his might. There are topics that it is better not to raise without a partner's initiative. Relationships in the past marriage, a fiasco at work - not every man is eager to discuss this. But some women are trying with all their might to invade the mental space of a partner, even if he has hung up a “do not disturb” sign. Every man has a space in which he will not allow anyone to delve. Moreover, it is important to understand that men in general are much less women tend to have frank conversations and prefer to keep a lot in themselves - this is how they work.
It is better to leave attempts to invade the forbidden territory. Such tactics will not lead to anything good. It is necessary to accept the fact that some topics are not subject to discussion. Surely you have a secret that you can not even tell your faithful. If the forbidden information is very important to you, calmly explain it to your husband. Let him make a decision - whether to confide with you or not.
Habit to involve outsiders in a dispute
How often do women act when arguments end in a dispute? A third party is called in to influence the opinion of a spouse - friends, relatives or parents. And it is in vain. Such tactics are very annoying to men. Neighbor Vanya will not solve your problem. The man thinks that any of your disputes is your business. Do not involve outsiders in this process.
Always solve all contentious issues only one by one. Third party can only be independent information. For example, you can’t agree where to spend your vacation in Italy or Spain. Here, only the Internet with stories and facts from travelers can be a good adviser.
Absent-mindedness
"You are a terrible muddler!", "Why do you not remember anything?" - do not be in a hurry to hear about such phrases from your husband. Maybe you should watch yourself a little. Absent-mindedness arises from overwork, a large flow of information with which the brain is not able to cope, or because of immaturity. So you have to either reduce the load, or grow up.
Try to calmly agree with your husband about who will keep the checks and warranty cards for the equipment, payment receipts and other important documents. Decide who will control the timely repayment of loans. Learn to work in a team. Let everyone do the duties that he does best. If you agree on such things in advance, you can avoid half of domestic quarrels and troubles.
Habit to be late and long to gather
This question is especially painful for the representatives of the stronger sex. They are already tired of joking: what jokes about the long women's gatherings did not come up. Psychologists have uncovered the secret of female tardiness. It turns out that it gives women power. Being late, a woman, as it were, casually shows a man that she commands them. Another reason for being late may be the usual reluctance to come to this meeting.
You need much more time for training than a man. It is a fact. Therefore, start to gather in advance. Discuss the time to leave the house and set a timer. Be sure to agree that there should be no complaints to you before the timer signal. But if you do not have time, do not be offended by the comments.
Prostration
Women often express their claims to men in an excessively gross form. This can manifest itself in puffed lips, proud eyes, caustic remarks or open scandal. Sometimes they act like a man owes them something. But not every man is able to endure such royal arrogance. After all, boys from school are very sensitive to criticism and complaints from their girlfriends. Over the years, the situation has not changed. Therefore, it is better to blow the lips and frown eyebrows dosed without irritating the partner.
Habit of interrupting
It doesn’t matter whether you’ve put a finger on his favorite sports program or in a conversation - this is incredibly annoying to men. From your point of view, he may look utter nonsense, but you need to understand that this is important to him. If the situation is not from the emergency category, wait until it is free. If a man is busy, do not throw him with questions like "did you buy potatoes?" Try to slow down and allow the man to do important things for him.
Habit to remember past negative
All that was in the past is in the past. So men think. If any conflict or negative situation is safely resolved - then it is considered exhausted forever. And any attempt by a woman to a place and out of place to recall past men's misses - causes some irritation. And when such regular recollection becomes part of a relationship - it plunges a man into a rage! The words "FOREVER YOU ..." or "AND REMEMBER HOW YOU ..." become a red rag that can instantly translate a man into a state of aggressive defense or attack. Avoid this if you do not want your home turned into a Rodeo.
